he is 21, he is not going to react the same way....he will be enraged, hurt, may never want to speak to me again and demand to know who it was so he can beat him to death, trust me, I know him........ He is a good hearted, funny, charming man...but if he feels he's being disrespected in any way he will feel taken for granted and foolish and he will get angry, very angry.......I don't want to lose him, ever........... Damn, I didn't want to be in love like this, but I have decided to go with it, my heart says I have no choice.