I am not sure how could you gather that I was against a ruler or otherwise. I think discerning weather a person is a Born Again Christian or not is in no way being against a person. I deal with them all the time! Well! it would be nive to say there is nothing called a Born Again Christian? John 3:3 has the very words of our Lord Jesus "I tell you the TRUTH no one can see the kingdom of heaven unless he is born again." Technically this should end any doubts but otherwise it would make our Lord Jesus a lier and that is what the devil always imparts in our minds.
Being born again means that the very rightious life of Jesus is not our life instead of the life of our fallen father Adam. I guess you should read all about Nicodemus's question and let your mind ask the very same question. I asked for a long time, and once the truth of salvation was made clear to me, I too began enjoying the very life of Jesus living in me. Please read, the 3 epistles of John. His books give a different version, a clearer version of slavation that is expounded in Romans 1-8 chapters. Many scholers take the doctrine of Salvation here but I found it more amazing when I began asking what did Christ achive on the cross? You need to experience the light then only will you see that your very perception of an everlasting life become real.