The Hulda Clark info on curezone will tell you the order of cleanses.
I think I started the bowel (I decided on just Bentonite and Psyllium husks) at the same time as the kidney cleanse; then did parasite, starting the daily mini liver cleanse at the same time. Then the liver flushes, while staying on Bowel Cleanse and weekly parasite maintenance.
Maybe your wife is right? (oops...)The stones many of us are passing are the cholecterol kind, anyhow that's what I have been passing....