Those are a lot of good ideas, but I am 22 years old and my life is going nowhere. Inbetween jobs, no place to go. Like I said before she is my life. I know she is self-centered, and very vain, but I chickened out and refrained from telling her that. I still don't know what to do, and I see my life going nowhere. Being only 22 I still have years ahead of me, and I am dreading each one.