I'm 48 and have had a lot of experiences in life and hope that
most people have not been unfortunate enough to share my experiences. Naturally, other people's views will be different than mine. It warms my heart to see everybody's efforts to help each other, I take it personally and thank you. It is because of my understanding that I address (focus on) the
person instead of the situation (the person is of paramount importance and the situation is only a part of life that must be overcome). Eventually, the situation will become part of the past and must be nothing more than a memory, but the person will either only survive or live happily depending on how they dealt with the situation.
Thank you for your help and concern,
God bless you