Thanks for the response. It sounds like you've been living the life that I've been dreaming of for years. But I'm glad that you are happy in a super marriage. I really wonder in my mind what a super marriage must be like...really. However you may want to put it, romance is not to me, going out to fabulous restaurants..etc When I speak of romance, for a lack of better words, I'm talking about a good relationship. Besides, athletic and performance driven sex is the best there is. Especially when you're in love and know that the person will be there when you wake up the next day.