Re: Abused as a child

i agree, your husband should be on your side, he should be supporting you. it makes me wonder what kind of husband he is. therapy could help, with the right therapist. i still dont understand where your husband is coming from. he sounds very selfish to me. if my husband didnt support me, i would tell him to go to hell, and get out. you dont need a husband like that. for better or for worse, does he remember saying that??? i would be thinking seriously about this marriage. i had 2 marriages that had no support. well, i am now on my third, and my husband is a gem. he will stand by my side, whatever the situation, and i will do the same for him. in fact, my husband now, has helped me heal from child abuse. god bless you, and good luck, cloe