Re: Can't stop playing with yourself, spanking the monkey!!
i'm not a pro so i can only give you my opinion. 2, 3 times a day seems like a lot to me but it may not be for most men.
I'm guessing your wife doesn't know about it? If she's like most women, I'm going to bet she can't keep up with you! so even if you did tell her, what could she do to help anyway? I can't say if it's a problem or not. IMO, it's only a problem if you or someone else is suffering from it. ei, if your wife is being neglected sexually, if it interferes with your work, etc. it would be worse on you if you didn't masterbate, I think, with that kind of libido needs some kind of release.
let me share a personal experience with something similar. I know my husband masterbates from time to time but I never knew how often until I asked him one day (I forget why I thought to ask him but anyway..) and he told me he masterbates once a day and sometimes twice. I was shocked! to say the least. I went thru a colorful spectrum of emotions. I felt shock at first, disbeleif, then when he assured me he wasn't lying, i felt hurt. How could he do that when i'm around every day? Then I thought about it a bit and realized there's no freakin way I would want to be the one doing the satisfying for him every freakin day. I just don't have the drive and truth be told we only see eachother for 20 minutes a day 5 days a week so there wouldnt' be time anyway and I would murder him if he woke me up ever night at 4am putting the moves on me.
then i thought, "well if he's fantasizing about me then it's ok". so I ask him who he fantasizes about. Why the hell does he have to so honest?!? Basically about me, but not always me. great. I was hurt all over again and after a few seconds of silence he says, "no i really only think of you. I was just kidding". lier!! a.fter a few minutes of thinking about it, was ok with it I don't always fantasize about him when I masterbate (which is rare) so it's all good i guess.
But not every wife is as understanding so, be forwarned if she ever asks that question remember that she is the only person you ever think about when you masterbate! LOL!