Re: WHERE'S MY BAG OF "MAGICAL SEX DUST"?

Dew, I do have a desire to learn because I have learned to communicate with this woman on all other levels. Since my last post she has agreed to dig up the topic once again and talk about it. I have taken some valuable points from this forum and will see where we can go with it.

I hear your message and thank you for the brutal honesty---the key ingredient to any type of understanding. I am myself brutually honest with myself at my best moments and brutualy honest with my woman almost all the time (except fragile moments). This makes our relationship both rewarding and challenging as hell.

I definately haven't learned enough from prior sexual relations to consider myself a Don Juan. My greatest lesson ever learned in bed was that there are 'two' people involved. Now all I have to do is learned what the other person wants. I originally beat myself up thinking I should already know what to do in some a priori manner. I don't see it that way anymore.

Thanks for your insight (Dew and others).