Re: Should fantasies become reality?

I have thought long and hard about the 3sm.
I am male.... that explains a lot.
although this is a wonderful fantasy, and one I am sure many people have, think it through....

1. what is the difference between having sex with someone other than your partner regardless of their presence?

2. could you sit back and watch your partner have sex with another without ANY possible negative impacts on your relationship?

3. if the 3sm was between close friends, could those relationships ever be the same?

although I love the idea of the fantasy, I could never try to bring it into reality without expecting some form of relationship breakdown either between my wife and I, or my wifes friendship (in the case of it being a frind of my wifes). I would have to say some fantasies should remain just that.