You're probably right. I'm becoming really tired of feeling like I'm not pretty enough or adventurous enough or deserving enough to be touched by the man who claims to love me and wants to marry me. What kind of man would do this to a woman? It's humiliating and so very hurtful. Whenever I try to talk about it he twists things around to make it seem like it's my fault. I don't want to spend the rest of my life in a sexless marriage....or at least only have sex on HIS terms.