You've asked some potent questions. What I want is for the man I love to want to be with ME and not another woman at the same time. I couldn't bear the thought of him touching someone else. He makes me feel like I'm boring and totally puritanical. In reaction to that I become MORE inhibited and self-conscious than before. In the 9 months we've been together he has only REALLY made love to me one time! It's always been me giving to him. Yet he tells me that I'm the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with. I don't know how to interpret this. Is there something wrong with me?