Re: This is a horror story.

here is where this horror story is currently... i am distancing myself a bit more each day because this friend obviously thinks that what i have to say does not pertain to her, or is just junk... today, 7 days after the lap.gal.surgery, which was to send her home by same afternoon, she is still in the hosp. with an unidentifiable infection (no kidding)... but, in her words, 'praise god for this surgery'... she calls me every day crying(literally) about what is going on, how her aftercare is one misshap after another, the pain she's in, the meds that make her sick, etc. but because she knew i thought the surgery was premature after just one attack, she praises what the surgeon did for her... imho, i believe the problem began with the surgery... you know it comes down to this i think, people want to complain, but they really don't want information that will benefit them, cause if it worked, they'd not be able to complain anymore... i must learn how to just let it all flow over me... if folks want to be sick, then i guess they have that right