OMG! I just read your story after posting mine! I'm not as bad as you sound, but I sure can feel your pain about doctors. Were you even told that sometimes people get these side effects after the GB is removed? I didn't. I was just told everything would be super-duper fantastic. Rainbows and Icecream cones.
I'm so sick of doctors! I saw a friend who had hers taken out 3 weeks after I did, and she was eating cheese burgers and pie! I wanted to cry all day! In fact, I did! They sent me back to work when I wasn't ready, and I had to call out often, too. The doctor's wouldn't approve my leave because they said nothing was wrong with me, either. Oh, hun. You have a friend in me, and I'll be thinking of you.