Re: Having trouble letting go...

Hello Hello!!

Well, ms Ladiee took the words right out of my mouth. Excellent advice!

You know, I lived for 18 years being "your wife," so, although my heart truly goes out for the way you feel, I know exactly where she is coming from. For you to keep calling her only makes her "dig in her heels" more to stay away from you. The statement that the previous poster made about you being dependent on your wife is a form of addiction is so true. The same thing happened to me and my story had a very tragic ending. (The story is posted somewhere on this website.)

You know, you fasted and did that so well!!! I am so proud of you for having made that MAJOR accomplishment. You did something few people could do.

Is there something you have always wanted to do? A new hobby? I would suggest doing something you have never done before and pour your heart and soul into that and leave your wife alone. If she is interested, let HER come to YOU. If she never does, then I will share with you what I have learned to live by:

"MAKE THE LEAST OF WHAT HAS PAST AND THE MOST OF WHAT IS TO COME!"

Also, whenever you need to pour out your feelings, all you have to do is come to this forum.
We do care.
Paulette G. Tweet