"Undealt burden leads to anger, and I don’t like anger as I like the opposite – happiness. Anger is destructive and happiness is infectious so why wouldn’t you choose happiness?"
"When you take the right bend, the burden is gone and the path ahead is clear."
"Life is what you make of it, grudges and hatreds live in a weak mind, love and kindness dwell in a strong mind."
I agree.
We learn from our mistakes. They help us to grow. They teach us valuable lessons. We move on to "the next level". We also have to face our fears head on. We have to deal with our issues, so we can be healthy and happy. Forgiveness is very important cause it really frees us from staying "stuck" in the same destructive mindset. Grudges only serve to hold us back.