Oh ok. So when you say "always taken care of"...you mean something different than I do I guess. I was thinking it meant something like a stay at home housewife who's husband supports her. Which I consider myself a housewife, and we had a business that we ran together. So I had the best of both worlds. When he died I continued to run it myself to support myself and my child.
So perhaps you are saying you and your husband had more money than your sister and she sees you as "taken care of"...or pampered maybe? Pastors many times don't make much money if they lead a small church. If so, sorry I missed that understanding.