Hey- it still stunk, and I was absent for it.
Not that one more voice would have made a difference.
And you are correct on the rest of it. As far as fitting in to what is currently going on, get sick, give yourself a lobotomy, develop a personality dependent on being unable to cope and having someone else make decisions for you. No Thanks! and you are correct, given the current situation, if you have really made somebody that mad you did the right thing. (Have found new AC thanks btw...)
Julie