love is never enough.

You women...boy...you women out there just hope and pray that the guy you are dating, the guy you're engaged to will just...CHANGE SOME DAY. Every women thinks that at some time..."if I could just change ________, he'd be perfect". Funny thing about this scenario is that guys NEVER WANT WOMEN TO CHANGE! Women want their guys to be better, guys want their women to always be like when they were dating. Truth is that you are a smart young woman to ask yourself this question. Yes, you are destined to be "stuck". Love is not enough. You will do most of it yourself. You've got to be really, really honest with yourself here...is this the life you always imagined? If not, run for the hills. You can love a guy, even like many of his ways, AND know in your heart that he is a trainwreck! All those are typically true when a woman has a gut feeling about him. Do you feel lucky...well...do ya? I would step back and re-examine. Count up all the positives with numerical rankings as to their importance to YOU. Then count up all his negatives. Are his negatives close or outnumbering his positives? Do his minor positives get trumped by his major flaws? Tweet