Re: Um....

Thanks Soul Survivor,

Well, no he didn't ask for forgiveness. He did mention, out of context, that he had a girlfriend for 4 years to "help" him after the divorce. Which was strange on a couple of levels. 1 is that it was out of the blue (trying to make me feel guilty 2) and it didn't have anything to do with anything we were talking about. and 3. I know he had a girlfriend at that time but her name was different than the name he mentioned and I know he treated her like dirt too. So that confused me.

He doesn't actually owe me anything. He paid everything the court ordered so technically he's in the clear on that. He never helped out in any other way with the kids like to help them buy a car, or for educational purposes, or anything minor either. This from a man who made over a million a year.

It is possible that he has run through his other sources, he just had a gold digger wife divorce him and took him to the cleaners, but he still has plenty of money left. He's a doctor and rancher. Wait, maybe he is in trouble, but his mother is helping him out. I couldn't possibly help him financially, his expenses are way out of my reach to help.

He is alone and isolated. Help me, I feel sorry for him, I just can't help it. Part of this weakness on my part is that the kids really think he has changed and so does an ex girlfriend of his that I am friends with.

Okay, back to the lovefraud website. I have been there but I don't think my brain is functioning right and it's not penetrating. Gotta look up "lovebombing", I haven't heard of that.

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