I have had a real battle on my hands, with my children and what other people wanted me to do to them. I have won nearly all my battles, but some I had to back down on. I accept that they are also my husbands children, and have had to go into many long conversations about natural health vs the alternative and the consequences. Luckily, he was not to hard too convince, but then you have the problem of other people and what THEY think you should do etc.
This is a difficult situation to be in. I wish you luck with your plight.