Ok I am going through something similiar I have the same type of open sores that he has only around my foreskin but I did have some puss bumps that came up after that with a little discharge that was clear these are all symptoms of balanitis but I am very scared that it maybe herpes. My friend says she had been tested in may and unactive for quite a while prior to and that I am the first person she has been with in a year. What do you all think? Mind you I was given a shot for gonnoreah and pills for chlamidia.