During a time when I was very frustrated sexually, I considered trying toys out, and no I haven't gotten one. I've always gone the old fashioned route, and yes I fantasize. Sadly, I used to fantasize about him...
Thank you for your well thought out response. I'll have to do some thinking. Finding a compromise we both can live with is the best thing. If I know what the deal is I can live with it - I just need to find out what he's thinking. Normally he's pretty good about having open discussions, but this one subject is different and it's difficult, but I will continue to try. Thank you.