a few more thoughts ...

Keep in mind that when you write a message, it may be interpreted in different ways than you expect. Always ask yourself, is this something I'd say to a friend or family member sitting across the table from me?
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For example, INSTEAD of writing things like

"if you had read my post" (this is a dig)

or

"That flew right over your head" (this is an insult to the other's intelligence)
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You COULD write:

"What I meant was..." (Uses "I" instead of "you" and is respectful)

or

"Please re-read my post" (This is respectful).
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If you write...

"To me, it appears insincere / dishonest / stupid when you ..."

...This is just another way of attacking the other person and is a covert form of name-calling, in my opinion.

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