Re: Emotional Betrayal

Thanks, every opinion added here, gives me insight, and helps me.

"...therefore staying in an unhappy marriage, other man or not, is not going to make anybody's life any better..."

That is the thing: the marriage per se is not unhappy, it is just me. My husband seems content. So, maybe before ending my marriage, I should look at ways to improve my actions, thoughts and try to become content with myself once more.

"...To be frank, he's probably cheating on you already anyway..."
No, I am certain he is not. He simply does not have the time for it, because he is already totally taken with his work. And the sad thing is, I know he loves me. But, his actions speak of more commitment towards his colleagues and his work. And that has over time turned my hart to stone, and even physically, I do not want him any more.

"... The other man is not important now..."
Yes, my brain knows that. It knows that this was a jolt from the universe to open my eyes, to wake up. A catalyst. But my heart, oh, my heart. How does one dictate to the heart?

I have always been uncomfortable with being lonely. And that is just what happened while being married. I became extremely lonely.

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