Re: Emotional Betrayal

I think you are on the road to realizing what is best.

The answer is inside you somewhere.

I am in a similar circumstance with big decisions to make, ie having children vs. not having any vs. adopting someday if I wait too long to have my own, never having any kids etc etc etc

I was in a relationship where he did not want kids and that took many years of my life...

It almost becomes an emergency situation as we as women become older, there is not much time left to conceive naturally, and then there is the dilemma of if that is what we truly want.

He sounds like he would make a very nice friend for you, and might understand that you want children?

It is an honorable and respectable thing to want, to be a mother.

Good luck, I hope will begin to feel more of a solid direction in your situation. :) :) :) Tweet