Re: good for you!!!!

I just want to thank everyone for their advice again. It has been therapeutic. I don't want to waste this forums time on my issues, however your opinions and advice are appreciated. I think it's safe to say the woman is mad, I don't need to know it's name to know that.

My baby girl has been born but things have gotten a lot worse, and very quickly so. A few weeks before the birth my sister happened to drive pass a local burger king and she was in there with her ex kissing. My sis got a couple of good pictures of them holding hands and locking lips. I knew this bitch would ruin me but never knew she would be this low.

I confronted her with the proof and she went crazy ... it's my fault for not treating her well, she had to run to another man because I'm giving her a hard time. I'm not giving her enough of my time or money to help her get by and blah blah blah. That made me mad as I have bent over backwards for this stupid woman and paid for everything and put up with her mental issues. If that wasn't bad enough our argument went on long enough for the neighbors to call the police. I was escorted out and told not to contact her as she wanted an injunction preventing me from seeing her or my baby. I'm waiting for some legal advice to get this sorted for once and for all.

Shortly afterwords she text me saying she wanted to stay in touch by phone, and that she needed some money. Bingo ! I knew then that I had to change my tactics with her. I got her to send me a legal letter stating that I am ok to call or text her, and went online to read up about narcissist traits. I told her a fat lie only so I can keep the peace, and have a chance of seeing my child until I can get the law involved. I have documented everything now, from texts to every behavior. I am now able to see her as she needs me, unfortunately the truth is for my money, well, my parents money to be exact.

I told her lies like I love her, I played to what a narcissist wants to hear. That she is beautiful, she is the woman of my dreams, she's the best thing since sliced bread. My parents and sister thinks she is such a blessing to me and want to be there at the birth. I told her my dad is keeping a large amount of money, she adores money, ready for us to have our own place in a few months time. Her face lit up so i knew I hit the jack pot!I keep doing errands for her now and make sure I'm with her most of the time which is awful as we argue but it's what I believe I have to do to right now.

About her ex, I got a large framed friend of mine to have a quiet word with him, nothing illegal but I believed he had gotten the message to stay away. He did for a while but I caught him driving past her place a few times so I am guessing they are in contact again. To make matters worse, my one friend found her profile on a local dating site which is currently active. Ugh ... I joined the site and used a picture of the best looking guy I could find and arrange a date to see if she takes the bait. I now have a date with my girlfriend and she wants to meet up. I'll be at home while she goes on a non existent date. Ha, would love to see her face when her date doesn't pitch up. Another mistake she made which is documented.

I got an appointment with legal advice tomorrow so will get the ball rolling to sort this mess out for once and for all. Thanks again everyone.





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