Re: My life is over !

Thanks everyone for their support. Soulfulsurvivor, I have decided not to get married to her. My parents are not happy but at least I know I won't be getting divorced in 6 months which is guaranteed to happen. I did a DNA test and the child is mine. Our little girl is to be born any day now.

Since I told her I won't marry her she's been a nightmare, even more so than usual. I get the " You won't see our child until ... add whatever demand she comes up with that day .. " or the " You have no right to demand anything, this is your fault ". Trying to reason with a loon is like arguing with a wall. I honestly pray I get through this. I am lucky I have my parents who have been supportive, upset but supportive.

It seems the more time i spend with her the worse the arguments gets. I stay away for a week then everything is fine for a short while then BAM, she pushes me away and the arguments start. What shocks me is her ever changing moods, possibly made worse by her pregnancy. I love you, having this baby is right as we are meant to be together, to me telling her off for being in contact with an ex who she has been meeting up with. I only get upset as friends of mine have seen them together and said they seemed real cosy. She insists nothing is going on between them.

So in the end I have to think of my child but also my sanity. I can see her dating other men and me looking after our child while she has fun but I am getting legal advice so all should work out.

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