Re: You wanna know what's not so funny?....n/m Re: For T_Montreal

"There must be something in the air or the water- or maybe it's the moon or something?"

Yeah T, there is something in the air, chemtrials and there is something in the water, fluoride.  Me thinks that so far as I can tell, the moon is okay lol!

"Can someone explain this to me, factually? I am all for learning lessons and growing as a person- but isn't there a point where you've hit your head against a wall long enough to realize that you're causing yourself brain damage? lol!"

I can't explain it factually but I can tell you what I think/discern/feel within my being. I'm all for examining ones past life, especially if it hasn't been so great, in order to set a new path for the future, thats how we learn and grow as time goes by.  Put it out there, examine it, then put it way forevermore.

The problem is as I see it that sometimes we end up going around in a circle looking at our past, or you could put it this way, we wallow in what was never thinking about what could be. The key word here is past, over/gone/all done, no do-overs.  If we spend all our time looking at and trying to figure out the why of what was then we are never looking/doing/seeing anything about what will be, we just stay stuck in the past.

Does that make any sense to you?  I'm not saying thats what you're doing or what anybody else is doing but in the end none of the past matters, its what we do in the future that counts.  

Time you spend in the past robs you of time you spend planning/having a better future.

I agree with Uny, too many distractions because whether or not we realize it the time we spend trying to figure out the why of our past is just a distraction that keeps us away from achieving our ultimate goals.

And like Uny I'll have to say that's my story and I'm stickin' to it. ;)

Abundant blessing of a bright/healed future,

Willow