"huh? I'm not sure what you are saying. God is eternal. This is a fact. I am his child. This is a fact. All God's children live eternally with him. This is also a fact. No fear here."
These are not facts, these are 'your' beliefs. You cannot prove these things. Much like the good child, "I'm being good, daddy loves me because I do what daddy says, and as long as I do what daddy says, and believe exactly what daddy tells me to, I don't have to fear him"
Can you not see, that this is a fear based belief system.
I grew up with a angry , jealous, tyranical father, I know this pattern very well. Even though my father loved me, that love was conditional on me being a 'good' child.