congratulations...you probably did harm him.

i love it when folks pour out their feelings that you did in fact damage him, perverted his sensibilities, altar his course of life, sexually abuse him, and did this negative or that negative that changed his path...but then come back years later saying apologetically "not that being gay is harmful or anything"...and "i'm not homophobic..."...and the worn-out tired "...i'm not saying that there's anything wrong with being gay". of course there is something inherantly amiss or you wouldn't feel the guilt and shame of a thousand years upon your conscience. i love the casual manner you slip in the "christianity" (why the quotes?) of your brother and interlace his faith with his gayness and strange behavior. nice try...you are a piece of work i tell ya. if nothing was "wrong" with homosexuality, why would 95% of all human beings in all corners of the globe have an utter distaste for the acts themselves and their results? you yourself have a problem with it, as you should, and now want to be cleansed in some fashion. nobody wishes this on people, sheeple have been forced to tolerate the abnormal lifestyles over the years and now, you the straight girl, are forced to reveal your obvious family crimes. he's an adult now, thanks big sis. it's beyond what you can do now, he is who he is. what do you want...affirmation that instead of playing cops and robbers as a kid, climbing trees, and collecting baseball cards you were humping his pee pee...no harm, just a little fool'n around? don't insult my intelligence. don't ask questions you know the answers to...