WOW!!!! That was so dead on. In June 2002 I broke up a six year relationship with my boyfriend and he decided to move in with my best friend as platonic roommates. In January of this year, I found out they had been dating. I was so overwhelmed and hurt by the whole thing and I knew I needed to do something to become more of my own person so I started doing theatre again (I had given it up a long time ago do to self confidence issues.) I wound up getting a lead in a major production in Boston and it pretty much changed my life. I also started spending time with a lot of different people. In September, I am moving into a new apartment with a man whom I have had a very strange and profound relationship for almost a decade. We are friends although we have been lovers as well. It ould make sense that this transit is swinging back around again. This makes a lot of sense to me-- thanks so much for your insight!