i understand where both of you are coming from and agree. i have responded to her in the past feeling bad and hoping the best for her cause of her depression. but now i feel she should seek professional help if she isnt already. honestly its annoying to see her post cause they are soooooooo long. i have nothing against lauray. id love to see her talk about her fasting experience but for only doing about a 3day fast she can write a whole book about it. be content with the fact you voiced your concern and if she doesnt want to take your suggestion or advice then move on. shell continue to write and people will continue to comment on the fact her posts are too long or self destructive. the mods should talk to her about that cause this is not a place to blog, its a forum.