dreamr
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I'm done being criticized for caring
It is true that there have been negative and demeaning responses to Lauray's posts, but MOST of them have been kind yet warning of a destructive cycle. I have tried to be kind, and I never once called Lauray a name or said anything negative to her. I simply said that I was concerned about her health and didn't want to encourage the fasting-then-bingeing process (where is the refeeding time in all of this?!).
My problem is that the people who recognize the true danger of what she is doing and are TRYING TO HELP HER, are being shot down for even caring. I'm done with it. It makes me sick to see people destroying themselves and even sicker to see others cheering them on. I cheered her on before, in fact my first post here was to defend her, but that was before I knew the extent of what was going on. My lesson has been learned.
If people want to criticize those on this forum who have a good head on their shoulders, then so be it. Just remember that if you silence the ones giving good advice, all that's left is a bunch of ignorance.
Wendy