Very good post mouseclick concerning what can be a very delicate subject, and an equally good reply from Wendy.
This does need to be highlighted, and where if any of us can offer any support whatsoever, then that is exactly what we should be doing.
I just hope those who may have ED's read this information which you have painstakingly put together, and heed this advice.
I would like to add that if anyone doesn't want to post publicly, I am certain that both mouseclick and myself would welcome a private message, which of course would be kept in the strictest confidence.