How about I come over to your house and beat that stupid man up?
But seriously, so sorry to hear all of this. no one deserves this and no you are not suffering because of your father's mistakes! However, mistakes made by our parents do leave an impression on our life force energies, they can drive us or they can drain us, it is up to us to choose how it plays out.
Perhaps you have done all that you can do already? 9 years is not so long wasted and you are still young enough to make a new life if needed. Have you any family to turn to?