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The term opposites attract means, a very outgoing person may be attracted to a more quiet person because an outgoing person often WANTS a more quiet personlity in a mate and the other way around to balance itself out. So if a very outgoing person wants a quieter person and focuses on that he/she will attract that.
LOA says like attracts like, meaning you attract the same thing that you are focused on. If you focus on not wanting fat, drug abusing, drinking, junk food eating dates, that is what you will get more of. If you dont want something and focus on not wanting that you will attract it.
Instead, focus on attracting people who love to work out, eat organic foods, live a healthy life style in general and then you will attract that.
I strongly recommend you get Abraham Hicks books "The law of attraction", "ask and it is given" and "The astonishing power of emotions". You can get them as a set for just $27 on Amazon!!