Lightstream Wow! But a few things!

I didn't expect you to break down every line but I do appreciate it thou..

OK.. I do understand your point.. its not his job to make sure my social needs are met but if I go out as much as he does I won't see him.. that's why I sacrifice my time to make sure that we all have family time.. We have 2 kids (7 and 2)
Give and take would be nice but I'm always the one making the change.. If I'm doing all the cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids when I get home which he is downstairs playing video games and watching tv when I'm in bed I want to sleep. I'm tired from working..this together makes 2 jobs for me..I can't be the only one to give and take...he has to too!

He just said that he likes those positions..actually he said that I'm lucky that I am being fuc@ed.. Who says that to their wife? I do think its a control issue.. I'm not good at being told what to do but his way is the way we have been doing it lately and its ok sometimes but other times I want to be made love to not fu@ked.. I have expressed my feelings on all issues.. name calling, positions, councling.. he doesn't care..its his way or we argue!

Our insurance will cover 20 visits per person per year.. I actually went to one for a while to see if something was wrong with me as to why my sex drive is down.. I even thought about becoming involved in one of those clinical studies where you get like v1agra for women but the study was full.

I'm sorry but there is a problem with doing it every night and like 6 hours later in the morning..especially if sex is going to be the same way everytime.. I love my husband and I don't want to reject him but I won't be treated like a whore everytime just to satisfy his needs my feelings count to you know.. I know I can't change him, but why should I be the only one to change. Even if I did just suck it up and have sex 2ice a day like he wants.. I won't enjoy it (which he will notice and then get mad and say I don't want it because I'm just throwing it to him) because he still wont treat the moment special and intimate.. its wam bam thank you maam and then sleep!

Anyway thanks again for your comments....