Update to last post about how to get in the mood! NOT GOOD!

Hello everyone,

I just want to thank you all for your advice.. it was very helpful BUT its not working.. he wants to have sex at night and turn around and want to first thing in the morning which will make me late for work.. I can't and we fight.. I know that I am not perfect and I have my flaws but this is ridiculus.. Ok.. I have realized that another issue is that he only wants to do it from the back and the side, never face to face action.. also the name calling.. he call me a B especially at the end if you know what I mean. He'll say like " sexy B" or "take it B" I told him that that bothers me.. if makes me feel like a slut in the p 0 r n.. He says that that is how he likes it and he doesn't see it the way I see it so we are just sexually incompatable and that's it. I don't know what to do anymore.. I think divorce is inevitable. He is trying to get me to change and sends me e-mail telling me that he is going to give me a chance to do better.. I'm like whatever its not only my fault.. Our problems are both our fault.. He will not go to councling because everything is my fault especially sexually.. Seriously.. If I had the energy and he didn't treat sex like I'm just some ransom slut off the street and he was more romantic with it like I'm his wife, then it would be on.. I feel like a single mom.. He goes out with his boys every friday and every M,W,F he goes to work out.. I don't do any of this... who's getting the short end of the stick here...not me!

Anyway..I don't know what to do.. Should I stay and try or should I go?

Thanks everyone!