Bless your heart Lori, I am so glad we have made you laugh. Laughter is so important in every facet of life. Anyway, I am going to provide the link where Tony recommended what to take for all your symptoms. Read this post again, I believe between Tony and myself, we cover all the supplements. If you have a question as to a specific discomfort that we have not covered, please let us know.
However, I do most certainly and highly recommend Black Cohosh. I call this the menopausal wonder herb. Make sure and try this and you may find that all your mood swings and other discomforts may disappear.
Make sure you are taking a good Women's vitamin and mineral supplement,
If you cannot find a supplement or for convenience, I use Utopia Silver's products, as I am sure of their superiority to other supplements. Just click here: Utopia Silver