Anyone have any advice on how to get over your husband cheating on you? It happened 8 months ago. I just found out 5 months ago. But I cant seem to get over it. Most days I'm fine but then I will be doing something & it will just hit me in the face. We have talked about it a lot. We dont have health insurance so I cant just run to the doctor for anti-depressants and we cant afford counseling. Any suggestions would be appreciated.