Thank you. No, I do not push them to do anything. In fact I give them a fre reign to do whatever they want to do. I know one thing though, when I was feeling like they are now, or worse, I did Liver Flush and I started flying in one flush after all the green balls came out of my body. They will not even think about this at all. So I have to weight. They both need some activity, like you said they have to think on their own. I am just hoping that it does not get worse and especially my son loses out on life's opportunities that some times do not return. i.e. going to a good college. After going to college if it gets worse it will be hard for him to study etc.
So I do worry. Our society is not that forgiving those who are mediocre in their achievements.