Not only does it all pass to the child in the breastmilk, but it passes through the air as well. Not much you can do about that. Happy, adjusted parents have happy, adjusted children. And sometimes there are just happy, adjusted children in spite of the parents. Those, you can be sure, are strong in spirit! =) I have known my children too, for a very long time, longer then time on this earth. I am sure of it. I feel the same about my father. There are theories that we travel in the same "circles" forever, regardless of the body. I tend to think that is true.