I am having some serious issues with my sex life please help!!!!

Well hello I am new to the boards here but I wanted to post on here because I am having problems in my current relationship. Well first off I'm 25 years old and well I was a virgin. I just had sex for the first time with my current girlfriend. Well she obviously wasn't a virgin and because I am we have been having some problems with our relationship. While we were trying to have sex it seems to take make a longer period of time to get erect and when I do actually have sex I ejaculate pretty much upon penetration so she remained unsatisfied. Well I think she was okay with it the first time it happened because well it was my first time but I have since tried to have sex with her about six times I say in the last few weeks and either I failed to get hard enough for penetration or I ejaculated prematurely.

I really don't know what to do about this situation because my girl isn't interested in foreplay or anything like that and is against oral sex even for herself and she only wants penetration so she is practically freaking out about it. I try to explain that maybe its because of my lack of experience in that area but she won't hear it. I don't know she just isn't the type of woman to really touch on me at all during sex. Sure we kiss and all and I touch her and Im trying to make her feel good but she doesn't really do so for me, but she expects me to simply get hard just by looking at her or by kissing her and it seems like she doesn't even want to try its so weird this is my first sexual relationship really so I wonder is that how its supposed to be then? She pretty much doesn't want to even try to have sex with me now because she feels I won't ever be able to satisfy her. I mean I'm really trying to satisfy her and I have even suggested alternate means of that to no avail at this point I am running out of options and it just seems she is so unwilling to compromise maybe I'm asking too much of her.

It like I'm being punished for not having sex for so long I mean to me I wanted to have sex with only one woman the one I would marry and I plan on marrying the one I'm with now I love her dearly but she is making it so hard. It like she is so sexually experienced in things and I'm not so she just assumes that I can't get better at it. From what I understand sex is something you get better at the more times you do it right? She never starts any sexual acts with me because of the situation and I have to start everything at which her response is to look at me as if she is uninterested or bored which pretty much makes me feel stupid its so frustrating. She really has me thinking that something is wrong with me because I'm not like her other boyfriends and to me that's messed up and if maybe it is something wrong with me physical what can I do to really fix it I wonder?

It not like I don't want to be better sexually and I'm not trying to. What do you think I should do about this I appreciate any advice you could give me on the matter I really don't know where to go with this one and I could just use some good advice on where a good starting point would be for me to get past this. I really do love her and I would like to continue our relationship.
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