I agree; I am female.

However, three points: 1. When there are rocks in the bed, there are rocks in the relationship. And vice versa. A woman wants to please a man when things are going good. Sometimes resentment built up causes the "headache/tiredness." 2. No matter how tired I am, my policy has always been, if I can raise my toe off the bed, I am going to initiate sex. Lots of benefits and not much downside. 3. Sometimes we have to love them,and let them know we love them in a way they understand, even though we hate things about them.

I'm female and I think you have some issues you need to deal with. You have lumped all women, and all men into some sort of generalization. I have been with many men who are not like that at all. I'm sad to think of what experiences you might have had to lead you to that kind of generalization.

I disagree.

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Check out that post and the thread that follows - it pretty much sums up how females are apparently responsible for the well-being of a man's penis, his satisfaction, AND every other negative issue involved in a man's sexual drive, sexual health, and sexual well-being! LOLOLOLOL!!!!

This is the best post I've seen in quite a while.

It's not all that difficult girls. Performance anxiety, Yeah, that's a problem. Not so much of a problem in the bedroom - it's the rest of life with you girls that is so frustrating for us and leads to us not wanting to perform in the bedroom. In the rest of life we can never perform to your satisfaction. Always something wrong, always something more to do, whatever we do it's never quite good enough for you. That just transfers to the bedroom. We KNOW we can't please you in anything else why would we be able to please you in the bedroom? We know you're going to find something, anything, wrong with our performance in life or the bedroom. What the hell do you girls want anyway???????????

If we love you and try to give you what YOU say you want you think we're wusses and don't respond thereof. If we push you away because of the elivated frustration levels with not being able to please you in any area of life, you're all over us. What's going on with that????

There was this guy once who didn't do anything wrong, he was almost God Himself. He could eat correctly. He could dress himself properly. He could go to work and perform his duties perfectly. He could drive his car with great precision and skill. He could study for exams and ace them. He could take a shower correctly. He could even put his socks on correctly. He even had good bathroom habits. This guy was really something. He was indeed close to perfection.

Then,

Then,

He got married and found out he wasn't doing any of those things right.


I have come to think you girls think us men are good for two things and two things only.

1. Good for nothing and 2. No good.

Well, on second thought we are good for one thing. Blaming anything on. There's not a problem a woman has that she can't blame on a man.

Tell me if I'm wrong. If you women had enough money and a few toys you wouldn't even bother with us men would you???

Why do you think men die first??? They give up, they quit. They come to the realization that they cannot make their wives happy. They see their wives happy about a new outfit, or a social gathering, or the right car to drive around in, or the jewelry, or outclassing some other female but they never see their wives happy about anything they do for them in their feeble attempt to please them in some way, any way. So they quit.

No mystery to it all, no magic formula to follow. If you want a girl to love you push her away, ignore her, pretend you're mad at her all the time and she'll love the hell out of you. If you want to get rid of her - love her, give her anything she wants, be real nice to her - she'll leave.

So much for the scientific studies and all the other BS out there trying to explain this phenomonon. All us men want to do is love our wives, make them happy, but what I've found after 40 years of doing that, well, it doesn't work. They don't respond to being loved, they don't like it and would rather be with someone who doesn't love them.

Man are like a possesion for you girls. Don't really want to love us just have us around to service you when you need it. And, of course, pay the bills.

Not to worry - I'm going to continue to love my entire life. Love IS the answer. You girls just don't know that yet.

Sorry!!!! Love doesn't work yet in society. I've seen the other end of it and it's not nice and for sure doesn't work. Someday love will work with you women. Until then, enjoy the sleep.

It about the love folks - period......

Please stick to the topic of this post. Glaxony requested that posters indicate either AGREE or DISAGREE and if they are MALE or FEMALE in response to her post.

Thank you!

Disagree. Female.

I've watched women make fun of their boyfriend/husband's sexuality. I've read men's stories about having _been_ made fun of. Including one particularly ugly one where the man had been raped and his girlfriend called him a pussy and a wuss for letting it happen.

When a man doesn't preform, the woman thinks it's her fault, then gets angry at him for making her feel inadequate.