Hi, I haven't been learning about the LOA as long as you have but when I got back to the LOA last year I tried to make up for lost time and I've learned a lot about what's wrong with my own failure to manifest some things... and I can tell you that NO, the Universe is not playing a cruel trick on you, you just haven't understood and/or absorbed some things yet, but don't despair, it does take a lot of practice for most of us to re-program our minds, especially if we learned about the LOA later in life (which is my case too).
The bottom line is that The Universe can only give us those things that we are a vibrational match to, period. And as an impartial observer I can see by several things you wrote that you are really not vibrating high enough to match your desire. Please re-read your post and note that several times you are talking about circumstances that "are" which you obviously believe are standing in your way of moving to your favorite city (i.e. the house...). You are also anticipating situations you don't want, which is a big "no-no". One of the first things we are told by all teachers of the LOA, is that we should NOT give what we don't want any attention nor should we talk about it; it would serve you best to dedicate more time to visualize what you DO want and speaking only in line with what you desire because "The Universe" will give us what we don't want if that's what we're really attracting to ourselves.
My suggestion to you is that you go back and read "The Secret" or watch the movie periodically to keep the main concepts fresh in your mind, also other books on the LOA, to get different points of view (this way it's easier to find those that truly resonate with where you're at now). I also recommend that you watch LOA videos regularly, some very good ones are those by Abraham Hicks you can find tons of them on YouTube. Also, I'd like to mention that not long ago I joined a support group on FB that has a ton of free material available on file and more constantly shared by other members. Oh, and I can tell you that I've been where you are, wanting to get out of a place that I could not make work for me but I didn't even know specifically where I wanted to move to, just the general area so it took me about 2 years of research and prayers but the truth is that God/The Universe revealed the ideal place to me in the very beginning I just didn't realize it then. And while I didn't have a house to sell, I had no money to move with but by keeping my desire and faith alive (didn't really know about the LOA then) on the 2nd year things began to move, I was given money to move and a series of synchronicities happened which opened different doors for me to be able to move and survive many months without a job, so you HAVE to BELIEVE, and by the title of your post it's easy to see that you are struggling with doubts...
If you have any questions or just want to share more, just let me know. Best wishes and happy manifesting!
Raquel
Believe me, I know how hard it can be while living surrounded by a lot of evidence of "what is"! Ironically enough, today I woke up having trouble with my thoughts, all because I realized I was running out of something I really need but "at the moment" don't have the money to buy... A couple of years ago, thanks to paying too much attention to things as they were (like not understanding why a job I manifested was not the right one for me) I started a process that has been my undoing. My greatest mistake was to walk away from learning more about the LOA at that time due to conflict with my religious beliefs, all that did was to push "a snowball down a hill" and you know what happens with that... it just kept rolling down faster and getting bigger, and I've ended up in a situation that's now a big challenge for me, but knowing as I do now how REAL the LOA is, I've no choice but to keep at it, trying to "lay down new pipes" until right thinking becomes second nature in me.
So you're definitely NOT alone, actually telling you what I saw was a reminder of what I myself need to keep doing, we're all in this boat together y'know. I will pray that the problems with your house are speedily and easily resolved and that you may find many ways to stay hopeful. Maybe it'll help to think of other times when you manifested good things and how you did it... I know that has helped to encourage me. During a couple of difficult times I made myself lists of all the times I could remember when things got resolved "miraculously" for me, most happened long before I was aware of the LOA so it was "neat" to see it at work in the positive so many times. I now look at those lists every time I feel like "this time things are different...", the truth is that it doesn't matter how different or difficult a new situation is, it's whether we have faith that we're going to get through it just fine or not what counts. And I thank God for what Mike Dooley said about not worrying about the "hows", that that is the Universe's job, 'cause boy, do I love to go there and then lose faith when I don't see a way!
Sorry I forgot to come around here, for some reason I cannot get notifications to my e-mail no matter how many times I've checked the settings.
I am glad that my post helped to remind you of what you already know. It's not easy to keep our eyes on what we want when "what is" gets so much of our attention each and every day. I am presently having a problem with food, which according to Abraham all boils down to our not being in the vortex... but I thought I was and felt it was the foods that don't seem to agree with me which knocked me off... so, there are areas that are not easy for me to grasp, but we live and learn.
I sure hope you can get the desires of your heart if that'll make you happier, but I want to share with you something I just now heard Abraham say (once again...): that everything we want is really because we believe we will feel better by having it... which sometimes is true and sometimes not. I for example, became very negative about living in S. FL because of the hurricanes, increasing cost of living, etc., until I got truly fed up with living there and I truly believed that if I was able to move to a "better" place my health would improve, I'd stop being depressed, and I'd lose weight, ALL of which began happening a few months after I moved (to SC) but then, I lost all the progress I'd made about a year later [I must say here this happened after I stopped following the LOA...] and since then I've been struggling to get my footing back. While I don't really want to move back to where I came from, I've seen with dismay that it's not the place where I live that can do "the magic" of sufficiently motivating me to do "what I need to do", right now I'm working on really loving myself better because I heard that's what will really get me there...
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