I've only got ONE sibling that actually wanted links. The rest of them were QUITE impatient with me - "um, just TELL me what to do, ok? I don't want to hear any of the jabber."
"Ummm, nope, sorry, can't do that without endangering you - either it's important to you - or not."
Sadly shaking my head
(Forgive my sullenness - I'm back to being the "one to avoid" in the family - it can be quite depressing)