Hi larryb,
well tnx for the reply, Im sure to heed your little advise and thanks for sharing your issue, I guess we have alittle bit of the same issue on some part, coz my mother also play a major part (being also emotionally dependent on her) well good for you as you have a family of your own and kids also, well what else could I say, I guess it's just amatter of you being more responsive to your wife and kids more than your mom, you see its them that needs more of your time and life, I am also should think and plan those things myself because that the way our lives should go on. for our current relationships and for the next generation.. Goodluck to you as a family man and tnx again for those encouraging words!More power dude!
Armand