It took me a year to finally get my girl friend to cum. No it wasnt dureing sex, I had to give her a long 30 minute massage down there not to mention I had to do it passionatly and I had to do a lot of foreplay before hand. After I figured it out though I've managed to get her to fully come 3 times. Again, it's impossible for me to get her to come dureing intercourse, just doesnt work that way. She's bisexual, even her ex - girl friend could not get her to come simply because her previous partners never took the time and patience and persistance to devote all their energy just to HER pleasure and none for them selves.