Kathryn

I don't have kids, but I'll raise them well and they'll love me. I'm not worried.

Second, I know my mother better than anyone. Talk about her calling me and I'm not picking up my phone? It's because she was running me down on the phone, picking on me, prying into my business, pushing buttons and laughing in the background.
My mother is not as concerned as you think she is.
She'll bug me to come visit (2 hrs drive one way) and when I get there, guess what? She takes off with her boyfriend and leaves me in the house alone watching tv. I guess trying to make me jealous.
Then as soon as I head back home, guess what? She's running me down on the phone. Does this sound like a game?
I stayed in Texas for 9 yrs, wanna know how many times she came to visit? Once. And when she came we had an altercation because she kept belittling the little vacation that I was trying to show her.

So I'm not concerned about how she feels that I don't pick up my phone. She knows my schedule, knows that I work nights and she can't call on certain times that I'm trying to rest. She wants to call me during sleep time, disturbing me, bothering me, pushing my buttons and laughing in the background. Then she lies about things. She's supposed to be a christian and started going to church way back in '79 and turns out to be a pathological liar. How can you be a christian and do this type of stuff to people? Lying, spreading vicious, unfounded rumours, talking about people like a dog. This is why I don't like my mother.